As I go through my day there are times that I stop and feel a little confused about what action or decision to make.  There have even been times that I asked for advice. But I have found that at least for myself and within all of us I believe, a gauge that can be relied on for proper judgment in any situation. I ask myself the question:

"If it's the right thing to do, why would I question it?"


When I say 'right thing' I mean personally for me. 'Right' for me, might not be 'right' for you or anyone else. But there seems to be in side of us a compass for our own personal 'right'.

For instance, would I need to ask advice or have doubts about if I should open a door for someone holding many packages? No.  Would I have a doubt if I should show up for work on time? No to that too. But when faced with a situation that I wonder if it is the right thing to do, most times I have found for me, it really isn't.

Doubts can be my instincts or conscious telling me that regret might be around the corner.

Perhaps I should question why it is I'm questioning it.

I agree. Thinking about something past that initial feeling is basically me wanting to try to convince myself that my intuition is not right. Usually because I do not like what it is telling me.

You made me think of another topic lol.

Well....

That can be a hard thing sometimes. Speaking for myself, every so often I wonder if what I want to do is actually the correct thing, or simply laziness on my part. Sometimes I really don't wanna do something just because it's hard or messy or boring. But since I decide it is the right thing, I do it anyway.