You know, it may be the case with you, that tarot just doesn't work for you Kitty, have you tried any other forms of divination?

Maybe just try out different things from time to time and see how things work out. Kinda like an experiment, ya know?

I feel the need to point out that while Tarot cards are the most well known form of "fortune-telling" card decks....there are oracle decks that might be better suited for some people than Tarot.

I have always had a hard time finding a tarot deck that I got along with.   Usually, the decks energy doesn't mesh well with mine (and yay headache time) so I haven't really had many decks or cards.

I did at one point find a Lwelleyn welsh themed deck at a used book store (it hadn't even been opened.  I think the person bought it just to read the book.).   That deck was the second deck that clicked with me.   The first deck was one that I had only for a short time and then passed onto to a person that the deck suited better.

Anyways, (stay on target) oracle decks are more common than you might think.  If you've been having trouble with Tarot...try an oracle deck.    The energies (at least from what I can sense) are more subtle, not as harsh and gentler than many tarot decks.