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« Reply #10 on: September 28, 2007, 01:22:43 PM »

Actually LAdyD the definition you posted shows mundane to mean ordinary. And unfortunately it used in a derogatory manor towards people. And not so much spiritually inclined, but just vampire vs. non vampire. I understand people have a need to distinguish themselves. But people should look deep inside themselves and see what truly makes them special.
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« Reply #11 on: September 28, 2007, 02:34:59 PM »

I think I may need to reiterate here and I'm quoting here so I can respond and make it very clear.

The online dictionary definition of the word mundane is
1.  Of, relating to, or typical of this world; secular.
2. Relating to, characteristic of, or concerned with commonplaces; ordinary.
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/mundane

I think it can be used to describe humans or non vampiric/non otherkin beings. It's really just a matter of preference. But when I use it , generally I would be speaking in the manner of the above written text.

First of all, we are all human. I don't care, vampire, witch, some form of otherkin (Which we do not discuss here), doesn't matter, we are all human! It's not really a matter of preference on this site, the reason I wrote up this topic is to let others know we don't appreciate the word, we don't like the word here and we do not use it on this site. I know there are sites out there that use it, but in my opinion it's very rude, it's derogatory and has no place. When terms like this is used, it doesn't further acceptance and understanding. It does the opposite, it separates people. If we are to grow and understand and accept each other and gain any knowledge of each other, we can't just toss around words like "Mundane". That's not what I'm trying to do here. It's about allowing people to share their experiences, share their knowledge, gain understanding and acceptance, and get past the mentality of it's "Us" against "Them".

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In this setting the word mundane is used in a more insulting manner. Mainly meaning plain or ordinary. Everyone is special. and having vampiric traits alone does not necessarily make someone special.


Quote from LadyDragon: True. I think that some use it as a way of trying to distinguish those that are spiritually inclined and those that are not. But that's not what the definition of the word is...

Actually no, it's not the wrong definition of the term. It's just another definition. And as humans, we all are spiritually inclined. We may at times lose some of that spirituality or lose our way, but as humans, we all have a spiritual connection of some kind, we all have a soul.
I find that people that have a tendency to use such words are insecure of themselves and are trying to make themselves look superior to others, they need some kind of recognition that they are not the same as others. Being a vampire, doesn't make one superior over others, it just makes them different. Plain and simple.

I think Bobby summed it up best when he said:
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people should look deep inside themselves and see what truly makes them special.
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« Reply #12 on: September 28, 2007, 02:38:30 PM »

I do find the word to be most often used in a pejorative manner.  This is why I have a dislike of it.
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« Reply #13 on: September 28, 2007, 02:41:27 PM »

I have to agree.  It is part of why I do not use the term "omnivore" when I describe those who are not vegetarians (I am new to the lifestyle, but still).  While it is scientifically correct, I find non-vegetarian more respectful and less segregating.  I have also heard people use the term "flesh eater", and I find that far worst than calling someone a "meat eater."  I do not want others to feel like I am sticking my nose in the air with them, nor to come across as abrasive to them.  To me, it is no different from an elf in a fantasy world calling a human an "ape."

When approaching those who are of an Abrahamic faith, I do not try to use slang.  I do not call a Christian a Xian.  I do not call a Muslim a "raghead."  When a religious fanatic bashes my lifestyle, it makes me no better to call them a term that often comes across as condescending.  None of it promotes inclusion.  I myself am getting weary of the "Us vs. Them" mentality, as well.  It only promotes hatred and degradation of a community.

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« Reply #14 on: September 28, 2007, 02:46:11 PM »

I completely agree.
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